Arranged Marriages

Before reading the article on arranged marriages, I was strongly opposed to them. I thought that there was no benefit and it was strongly oppressive to women. But I didn't know a lot about the culture behind it and the viewpoint of those who favor arranged marriages. I know understand the reasons why certain cultures do have them. It was interesting to see how girls thought that they didn't have enough experience to choose a husband, but their parents did. I would never let my mother choose my husband for me, let alone give me advice and interfere in my love life. But Indian girls certainly think differently. They see dating as pointless and marriage is the time when you fall in love with your husband. Although I can see their point and understand it, I still don't agree with it. I could never agree to spend the rest of my life with a complete stranger. Maybe it is just the culture I have grown up in, but the concept is so odd to me. Even though I am still opposed to arranged marriages, I have a new perspective on the matter. I believe that those who want one and want it to be a part of their culture, should be allowed to. It doesn't interfere on anybody else's life and certain people do benefit. For example, it brings about a greater family connection and ties two families together. I have grown up hearing parents complain about the "in-laws" throughout the media. But with arranged marriages, you gain a husband and a new family, which you learn to love. In this way, I almost think these types of marriages are better, but unfortunately, I am still opposed to them in my own life.